Letting Go.....
Letting go is one of the hardest lessons in life. In life, there's many things that we have to learn to let go. We have to let go of situations, things, memories, people and even ourselves.
It's easy to form an attachment to people and things. When you've formed an attachment to people and things, it can be a very painful experience and feeling when you realized that it's time to let go. Even the mere thought of not having that person or thing in your life just squeezes your heart in pain.
However, there are times where you or that person has changed to the extent that it's necessary to let go of the relationship or friendship, so that each of you can fulfill your life path. Letting go of your past and memories are also extremely hard. Even though old memories can be tormenting, yet you might hold on to the past and refuse to move forward. However, by refusing to let go of the painful past, it'll serve as a roadblock to love.
As I started to picture the trees in the storm, the answer began to dawn on me. The trees in the storm don't try to stand up straight and tall and erect. They allow themselves to bend and be blown with the wind. They understand the power of letting go. Those trees and those branches that try too hard to stand up strong and straight are the ones that break. - Julia Hill
I have been thinking a lot about this topic and I have realized that its the hardest to let go of People. But once you realize that one of you has moved on and you are still in the same place, its the best to let go and move on. You cannot hold on to anyone or bind anyone to yourself. Its easier if you start believing in this quote "You never leave someone behind, you take a part of them with you and leave a part of yourself behind"
- 4 Jan 10
Courtesy: www.great-inspirational-quotes.com
It's easy to form an attachment to people and things. When you've formed an attachment to people and things, it can be a very painful experience and feeling when you realized that it's time to let go. Even the mere thought of not having that person or thing in your life just squeezes your heart in pain.
However, there are times where you or that person has changed to the extent that it's necessary to let go of the relationship or friendship, so that each of you can fulfill your life path. Letting go of your past and memories are also extremely hard. Even though old memories can be tormenting, yet you might hold on to the past and refuse to move forward. However, by refusing to let go of the painful past, it'll serve as a roadblock to love.
As I started to picture the trees in the storm, the answer began to dawn on me. The trees in the storm don't try to stand up straight and tall and erect. They allow themselves to bend and be blown with the wind. They understand the power of letting go. Those trees and those branches that try too hard to stand up strong and straight are the ones that break. - Julia Hill
I have been thinking a lot about this topic and I have realized that its the hardest to let go of People. But once you realize that one of you has moved on and you are still in the same place, its the best to let go and move on. You cannot hold on to anyone or bind anyone to yourself. Its easier if you start believing in this quote "You never leave someone behind, you take a part of them with you and leave a part of yourself behind"
- 4 Jan 10
Courtesy: www.great-inspirational-
I agree with you on the most part. And just to add to it, I would say the difficulty of letting somthing or someone go also depends on how sensitive one is.
ReplyDelete@Nikhil: I agree...so considering the fact that im supersensitive...its really really tough :(
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